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Expect that you will meet others who have
experienced the death of someone close to them. Expect that some
days will be harder than others. Expect that you, or some of your
family members, will not want to
come to group—but encourage them to do stay committed to coming.
Group
members need each other, teach each
other and help each other through the process.
Everyone grieves. Grief is the feelings
inside—the confusion, the churning stomach, the heartache, the
mental anguish. Mourning is what we do with our feelings
of grief in order to reconcile the loss and continue living
healthily and positively.
Coming to support group is both challenging and
rewarding—it may be difficult to face the pain, but facing it,
expressing it and sharing with others in similar circumstances
provides us with
new tools and the inner strength to cope with our changed
circumstances and help our families move forward.
We do not subscribe to theories of “stages” of
grief, or think of our mission as “treating” people so that they
“get over” their grief. We recognize that there is no timeline for
individual grief, but rather chaotic, stormy, swirling seas of
emotion punctuated by moments of calm and gradual reconciliation of
the permanent changes, reassessment of life’s meaning and living a
“new normal” that is assisted by the hard work of healthy,
life-affirming mourning. |
The model we use is often referred to as
“companioning” bereaved children and teens—that is, walking with
them as they teach us about their own grief and their need to
mourn, establish a new self identity without their loved one,
remember and honor their loved one and search for meaning for their
life journey without their loved one.
Participants are encouraged to attend for as
long as they like. There is no cost to the participants for either
the services or meals provided.
Helping children grieve can have a lasting
impact on their lives. Central to the mission of Journey of Hope is
helping children and adolescents reconcile the loss and move toward
healing. Laughter, fun and celebration are part of the healing
journey along with frank discussions, tears and sharing of memories.
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Anticipating Loss
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